Today Sherry is taking dad to a medical appointment, a follow-up appointment after his hospital stay and I have been asked by dad to not go. Which was prompted by the CEO saying she did not want me going to the appointment. She said "the doctor doesn't like it when so many of us show up and ask to many questions" which we know is just the CEO's saying she doesn't want me to go. It has not been a problem when she isn't here and the doctors have been more than willing to talk to us and we do not all ask questions. Generally it is Sherry or I who ask the questions as we are the two who are here for the most part. Even Susie has stated that I need to be here as I know more of dads medical history that she does! But for dads sake I will not go and Sherry with get the scoop and fill us in.
Friday, Sherry asked the CEO if I could ride with them to watch Camden play baseball, was going to be his last game pitching in high school. the CEO went off on me, questioning why I wanted to go as I had never gone before. Sherry ask, "Have you ever asked her to go?" They have not! the CEO also said I was the worst troublemaker in the family. Sherry countered, "No, the worst trouble maker was sitting right across from her" Wow did that raise her hackles! Sherry said dad just winked at her in agreement. I know that when I am there it just infuriates the CEO and that she takes it out on dad, but it is so unfair of her to exclude me from as much as she can. Just because she hates me! I have never been able to disprove all the lies that Susie and Lisa filled her head with before I moved here. And now I have stopped trying. I just stay away and try not to cause problems for my dad.
John and Cathy came down Monday to see dad. they refuse to come down when his mom is here as they do not want to deal with her and her anger. John nor his mother will call the other to make up over last summer and his mother at that time told him she wanted nothing more to do with him. It is a sad situation and his mom will not forgive him and he only did what my dad asked him to do. But not one person in her family will help or even come up to see her. They are very happy to let us deal with and take care of her at this point in time. However, if my dad goes first, they will be getting her and she will end up in a facility of some sort as her family will not keep her home. And that is the biggest part of the problem. When sees all of us rallying abound dad and has no one that cares enough about her to do the same thing. Sherry basically told her it was her fault as mom and dad raised us to care for the older generation.
Sherry just left and she said the CEO did exactly what she accused me of doing. Redirecting the doctor appointment to be about her and not about dad. The more I learn of her and her manulipations the less I like her. It makes me angry that she has so much power and she wields it against me at every opportunity. It almost angers me that my dad will not stand up to her and support me. I understand that she is going to beat him up over it and I try to make concessions regarding it but it still hurts that I am being pushed out of his life by her. Sherry is always telling me it won't do any good to stand up to her but I sure want to if for only my own peace of mind.
So now we need to change out plan for tomorrow as someone has decided they want to go to the Casino instead. Guess I won't let that change my plan at all. I am going to go ahead with my plan no matter what as I have things I need to get done and I can't put if off to accommodated dad and the CEO. Since I am not included in any of their plans I guess ti doesn't really matter. It really seems like it is a concerted effort on their part to thwart any plan that Sherry and I might make as they knew we were planning on going to WB tomorrow. although Sherry did say that dad is the one who wants to go. I don't believe it and they are waiting on the CEO to decide if they are going or not.
Friday, Sherry asked the CEO if I could ride with them to watch Camden play baseball, was going to be his last game pitching in high school. the CEO went off on me, questioning why I wanted to go as I had never gone before. Sherry ask, "Have you ever asked her to go?" They have not! the CEO also said I was the worst troublemaker in the family. Sherry countered, "No, the worst trouble maker was sitting right across from her" Wow did that raise her hackles! Sherry said dad just winked at her in agreement. I know that when I am there it just infuriates the CEO and that she takes it out on dad, but it is so unfair of her to exclude me from as much as she can. Just because she hates me! I have never been able to disprove all the lies that Susie and Lisa filled her head with before I moved here. And now I have stopped trying. I just stay away and try not to cause problems for my dad.
John and Cathy came down Monday to see dad. they refuse to come down when his mom is here as they do not want to deal with her and her anger. John nor his mother will call the other to make up over last summer and his mother at that time told him she wanted nothing more to do with him. It is a sad situation and his mom will not forgive him and he only did what my dad asked him to do. But not one person in her family will help or even come up to see her. They are very happy to let us deal with and take care of her at this point in time. However, if my dad goes first, they will be getting her and she will end up in a facility of some sort as her family will not keep her home. And that is the biggest part of the problem. When sees all of us rallying abound dad and has no one that cares enough about her to do the same thing. Sherry basically told her it was her fault as mom and dad raised us to care for the older generation.
Sherry just left and she said the CEO did exactly what she accused me of doing. Redirecting the doctor appointment to be about her and not about dad. The more I learn of her and her manulipations the less I like her. It makes me angry that she has so much power and she wields it against me at every opportunity. It almost angers me that my dad will not stand up to her and support me. I understand that she is going to beat him up over it and I try to make concessions regarding it but it still hurts that I am being pushed out of his life by her. Sherry is always telling me it won't do any good to stand up to her but I sure want to if for only my own peace of mind.
So now we need to change out plan for tomorrow as someone has decided they want to go to the Casino instead. Guess I won't let that change my plan at all. I am going to go ahead with my plan no matter what as I have things I need to get done and I can't put if off to accommodated dad and the CEO. Since I am not included in any of their plans I guess ti doesn't really matter. It really seems like it is a concerted effort on their part to thwart any plan that Sherry and I might make as they knew we were planning on going to WB tomorrow. although Sherry did say that dad is the one who wants to go. I don't believe it and they are waiting on the CEO to decide if they are going or not.
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